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May 4, 2018

My friend is getting into a relationship and I am very happy for her but I am afraid that we will not be as close as we used to be. What should I do?

April 27, 2018

I dated this guy over a year ago and I still miss him. I tried to forget about him but the thought of him always remains in the back of my mind. What should I do?

April 13, 2018

I’m graduating this May and I want to stay in the Bay Area. I’m happy here since all my friends are here and I just love the area. But my parents want me to go back to the East Coast. I’m looking at job options and everything that I’m interested in is in the bay, but I don’t want to disappoint my parents either since I do care about them. Any thoughts?

April 6, 2018

I've been dating my long-distance boyfriend for a while now, about 10 months. We started dating during the last few months of high school. I see him about once every month for a weekend or so. I feel like I've lost the physical attraction, but he has a very attractive personality/character that I would be sad to lose. He's my best friend. When we kiss, I don't feel the spark anymore though. And the sex was never really satisfying for me. I know it's satisfying for him and that he isn't losing the physical or emotional attraction. What should I do? We'll be within a 5-minute drive of each other during the summer, but it's a long-distance relationship during the school year.

March 9, 2018

My roommate is always trying to tag along with me and my friends. I'm cool with them coming sometimes since I know he doesn't have a lot of friends, but I really want to spend time with my friends without him being there. Is there any way I can let him know without being rude?

March 2, 2018

I like this guy but I think that he's gay. What do I do?

February 23, 2018

​How do you find love, in general?

February 16, 2018

Over winter break, I cheated on my boyfriend of a couple of years. It wasn’t intentional but it happened. I finally told him recently, because I figured if I cared about him, I owe him the truth and should let him decide where to take things from here. But I feel so alone without him because he was my best friend. Did I do the right thing? Should I just have not told him and kept going?​​

February 9, 2018

I have a crush on my professor. What should I do?

February 2, 2018

I scored a position with the lab of my dreams, but the lead researcher is a really difficult person to work with. I can never do anything right and he never praises any of my hard work. On top of this, he acts like I don't do enough even though I put in more hours than I should. I'm still a student so of course there is a limit to how much time I can spend there. It's starting to stress me out to the point where I think about quitting. What do you think I should do?

January 26, 2018

This semester I have 8 a.m. classes and have to get up pretty early to make it on time. My roommate is a night owl and often up until 4 am. I know he's trying to be as quiet as he can be, but I still get woken up at least once a night. What are some tips on living in a double with someone who has an opposite schedule? Should I talk to him about it?

November 24, 2017

I have met a couple of guys from Tinder in the past year. On our first date, I could see they were physically attracted to me judging by their body language (hand-holding, hugging, tap of hand, and even attempted kissing). But it never leads to a second date and a relationship and I suspect it is my lack of personality. What do you advise in that case? How can I work on becoming a more fun person to talk to/be around? or should I just accept myself for who I am and wait for the right guy who will appreciate me for who I am and not just for my looks?

November 17, 2017

How do I deal with someone who only wants to be friends with benefits, but I may want more?

November 9, 2017

I've been dating someone for the first time. It's serious enough that I can envision staying with them for a long time. On the other hand, I worry that in the future I may regret not dating more people in college and experimenting to see what I truly want from a relationship. How do I reconcile my happiness with my current relationship with my doubt?

November 3, 2017

I've been having a rough semester mentally, financially, and socially. My dad calls me about once a week to check in and I don't know how to tell him I'm not doing ok. I know he'd be worried about me and everyone expects me to be having such a great time away at school.Any advice on how to handle this? Is it ok to lie to him?

October 13, 2017

How can you keep a conversation going without all the awkward pauses?

October 6, 2017

What is the one thing you miss most about your hometown and how do you deal with homesickness?

September 22, 2017

How did you find out that you were in love with your partner?

September 15, 2017

What do I say to my roommates if I am planning to bring someone home?

August 11, 2017

College is just around the corner. I cannot believe how fast it is approaching. I hope you all are a part of your class’s Facebook page. If you aren’t, then go join it right now! The notifications might be poring in from fellow students and it might seem a little much; however, I want you to focus on being active on the Facebook Group Page starting today.