Love Cafe

Finding love...what's the secret?

February 23, 2018
​​​"How do you find love, like in general?"

More than sex

November 17, 2017
"How do I deal with someone that only wants to be friends with benefits, but I may want more?"

Is it my lack of personality?

November 24, 2017
"I have met a couple guys from Tinder in the past year. On our first date I can see they are physically attracted to me judging by their body language (hand holding, hugging, tap of hand, and even attempted kissing) but It never leads to a second date and a relationship and I suspect is my lack of personality. What do you advise in that case? How can I work on becoming a more fun person to talk to/be around? or should I just accept myself for who I am and wait for the right guy who will appreciate me for who I am and not just for my looks?"

Class of 2021: Start Getting to Know Classmates

August 11, 2017
College is just around the corner! I cannot believe how fast it is approaching. I hope you all are a part of your class’s Facebook page (if you aren’t, then go join it RIGHT NOW)! The notifications might be poring in from fellow students and it might seem a little much; however, I want you to focus on being active on the Facebook Group Page starting today!

I like her, but the problem is....she has a boyfriend!

July 21, 2017
This girl and I have been hanging out a lot lately and I can tell there are feelings growing between us two. But the problem is… she has a boyfriend. She’s in a long distance relationship. She talks to me about their problems all the time. We haven’t done anything “bad”… no cheating or anything. I really like her, but I also don’t want to get in-between her relationship with her boyfriend. What should I do?!

I didn't get the internship I wanted. Now what?

July 7, 2017
"I didn't get the internship that I really wanted and its bumming me out. How can I deal with the feelings of inadequacy that have been coming up?"

Q&A: Socializing at Berkeley

August 27, 2014
I’m a shy guy. How do I make friends at Cal?

When you want to work out but need #squad support

June 2, 2017
"Summer's coming and I want to get outdoors and to the gym more. I hate going alone though! What are some tips on roping my friends into coming with?"

Need a roommate, like now.

April 28, 2017
"Help! My first year is about to end and I need to find a place to stay asap. What are some strategies that people use to find roommates or look for places to stay? I need to maximize my reach at this point!"