Love Cafe Q&A

Is it my lack of personality?

November 24, 2017
I have met a couple of guys from Tinder in the past year. On our first date, I could see they were physically attracted to me judging by their body language (hand-holding, hugging, tap of hand, and even attempted kissing). But it never leads to a second date and a relationship and I suspect it is my lack of personality. What do you advise in that case? How can I work on becoming a more fun person to talk to/be around? or should I just accept myself for who I am and wait for the right guy who will appreciate me for who I am and not just for my looks?

My partner's sexual history

August 11, 2014
I'm a virgin and my boyfriend of five months isn't. I recently have been hearing about him talking to mutual friends about his sexual past, and it bothers me to hear about it. Should I ask him to tell me everything? Is it a good idea for me to be kept blind about his sexual history?

Dealing with Homesickness

October 6, 2017
What is the one thing you miss most about your hometown and how do you deal with homesickness?

Tips for making friends in the dorms?

October 14, 2016
I live in Unit 1 and even though we’ve been in school for almost a month, I still haven’t made any friends. I thought living in the dorms would give me a better chance to meet people but it is harder than I thought. What are some tips on making friends while living in the dorms?

Best Friends Forever?

August 6, 2014
I’ve recently noticed that my best friend and I have grown to be very different people with different values, goals, and attitudes toward life. Because of this, it’s hard to talk with each other now without feeling bored to the point I dread our catch-up sessions. I want to stay good friends with her and feel sad that this is happening to us. Can I save our friendship or should I just come to terms with us drifting apart?

Will my friend forget about me?!

May 4, 2018
My friend is getting into a relationship and I am very happy for her but I am afraid that we will not be as close as we used to be. What should I do?

Annoying roommate

July 10, 2014
I am extremely annoyed with my roommate. I don’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her all the things I’m annoyed about but I also can’t imagine continuing to live like this. What should I do?

Roommates and Hook Ups

September 15, 2017
What do I say to my roommates if I am planning to bring someone home?

I plan to save myself for marriage

August 13, 2014
I recently entered a relationship with a guy who's not a virgin. I am, and plan to be until marriage. He knows this and says he's ok with it but also says that it's difficult for guys to control their sexual desires. We've never reached a concrete resolution to this problem, but I would love some insight on how or if you think this could still work.

How do I make a move on "cafe guy?"

August 13, 2014
There is a charming guy at a cafe that I go to, I've seen him several times. I don't know how to start a conversation! And a lot of times, he has a few other people with him.