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I'm a virgin and my boyfriend of five months isn't. I recently have been hearing about him talking to mutual friends about his sexual past, and it bothers me to hear about it. Should I ask him to tell me everything? Is it a good idea for me to be kept blind about his sexual history?

I’ve been dating this guy for two months now and things are going well but every time I bring up the subject of finally becoming “official”, he changes topics or looks so uncomfortable that I just end up saying never mind. I’m getting frustrated now but I don’t know what to say without sounding desperate/needy. How should I approach him about this?

I always seem to be disappointed with my boyfriend.

He says he cares about me and misses me whenever we’re apart but his actions show otherwise, such as canceling dates and setting a time limit on how much we should spend time together since he’s so busy with school. And whenever we’re together, we’re usually doing something he wants, especially having sex. Sometimes I feel that he does care about me but am I being delusional and is he just lying? 

My roommate constantly lets her boyfriend sleep over so I’m always getting sexiled overnight (so it’s the couch for me). I’ve already told her that I don’t like him staying over so much but she always comes up with excuses as to why he had to. I don’t want to fight with her over such a petty issue but I can’t take it anymore, help!

I hooked up with a girl I work with and now it’s a bit awkward, which is affecting our team's progress. What should I do?

Since going on the pill a few months ago, my vagina seems to have forgotten how to lubricate itself. My SO doesn't have a problem with it, but it makes me self-conscious about sex. What can I do?

I have a friend that I like, and he likes me too. We didn't like each other from the beginning, and it was all a game when we started chatting. But now we came out with our feelings. We never kissed because I didn't want to, but we did a lot of other stuff. The problem is that he has a girlfriend and I don't think he would leave her, or at least I don't want him to. I like him a lot, but I am not sure if I want to be with him. Sometimes it's great to be with him and I love him, but others it feels wrong.

I’m dating a guy who constantly treats me like crap when we’re apart, but when we’re together, it’s 180. Why is he acting like this? How do I change his behavior?

My girlfriend cheated on me and she swears it was a one-time drunken mistake. We’ve been together for 4 years. Should I forgive her? She’s never lost my trust before but I am hurt by this.

There's this guy- a relationship without a label. He stated he needed space after about 2 weeks and that he "liked me too much" and was scared. we decreased hanging out then we began hanging out again. I had sex with him, he was my first. since then we've been friends with benefits- but I think I like him too much and half the time we will only talk once or twice during the week. He's very distant but still treats me like I'm everything when I'm with him. What do I do, I'm confused.

I spent most of my college career dating this special girl I met freshman year. She was my best friend and I always thought that no matter what happened between the two of us, we would at least want to be friends. After our relationship ended, that friendship I spent years building disappeared. I want to be friends with her, but I am not sure how to make it work out. Time hasn't helped and we don't even talk anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.

I'm a fourth year with a girlfriend. We graduated from the same school and have been together for almost a year and it's going pretty well. We have our similarities, but we do share a few important, but no deal-breaking differences. Anyways, her major is probably the complete opposite of my major so our futures are pretty destined to go in different directions. Long distance is possible, but we realize it probably wouldn't work out. Breaking up is pretty unavoidable. Should we just break it off now or wait?