Love Cafe Q&A

Romance at work

August 5, 2014
I hooked up with a girl I work with and now it’s a bit awkward, which is affecting our team's progress. What should I do?

How do I overcome my shyness

August 6, 2014
If I’m a shy person, but I have my eye on snagging a Valentine, what are some ways I can go about either being a secret admirer or just being straightforward with this person?

Didn't get the internship

July 7, 2017
"I didn't get the internship that I really wanted and its bumming me out. How can I deal with the feelings of inadequacy that have been coming up?"

I Choose Abstinence

July 28, 2017
“I’m a virgin and want to practice abstinence, but I feel like all couples do in college is have sex. How can I find a guy who will love me for what I believe in?”

Drunk friend’s kiss

February 24, 2014
Last week, my friend called me and she was incredibly drunk, so I rushed out to take care of her. I let her stay over because she looked like she couldn’t even walk straight. I was planning to let her stay in my bed while I slept on the couch, but she would start whining and crying. She asked me to stay with her, so I sat on the bed. Then she kissed me and told me she loved me. Immediately afterward, she fell asleep. I’m not sure what happened, but when I asked her if she remembered anything from last night, she said she didn’t remember. What just happened?

I may have been exposed to HPV

August 1, 2014
I may have been exposed to HPV. I am a male. Is there anything I can do?

Home or internship?

August 31, 2014
I’m torn between going home for the summer and staying here for work or a summer internship. I get homesick and miss my family. But I'm worried about not having enough on my resume. What should I do?

Conflict in my friend group

October 7, 2016
Hi there! Conflicts among friends can be tough, especially if you value all of your friendships and don’t want to lose any of them in trying to save other people. First, think about what the conflict is over. If it’s something small, there might not be that much risk associated with getting involved a little bit. Having a mutual friend bring some common ground back into the issue can help a lot. If the issue is very large or you are uncomfortable getting involved, find someone who can.

Long Distance for the Summer

May 19, 2017
Surviving a Long Distance Relationship 101

I like her but she has a boyfriend!

July 21, 2017
This girl and I have been hanging out a lot lately. I can tell feelings are growing between us. But the problem is she has a boyfriend. She’s in a long-distance relationship. She talks to me about their problems all the time. We haven’t done anything… no cheating. I like her but don’t want to get in between her relationship with her boyfriend. What should I do?