Love Cafe Q&A

Q&A: Academics at Berkeley

August 28, 2014
I have a big exam in a couple days, but there’s a really rad concert I want to go to that’s the night before. I always studied hard in high school, but now that I’m in college, I just want to have fun. What should I do?

Winter break with the folks

July 26, 2014
I’m dreading going home during the Winter Break. Whenever I’m home my parents treat me like a teenager. They quiz me about where I’m going and even enforce a midnight curfew! What can I do to make my life less miserable during the break?

Struggling in my math class

July 14, 2014
I've been struggling so much in my math class. I've been to office hours, got tutoring from friends and the EECS honor society, etc. I am still struggling and I'm afraid I might fail the class because I don't understand what's going on. Every day I walk out of class either tired or in tears.

Is it gay if its just one time?

July 16, 2014
Is it gay if its just one time?

I'm dry in the bedroom - what do I do?

August 3, 2014
Since going on the pill a few months ago, my vagina seems to have forgotten how to lubricate itself. My SO doesn't have a problem with it, but it makes me self-conscious about sex. What can I do?

Interested in seeing other people

December 9, 2016
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years and even though I care about him, I think I’m interested in seeing other people. He’s great but I’m starting to wonder what I may be missing out on. Any advice?

Annoying roommate

July 10, 2014
I am extremely annoyed with my roommate. I don’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her all the things I’m annoyed about but I also can’t imagine continuing to live like this. What should I do?

How do I cope with a breakup

August 20, 2014
I am currently going through a break-up and it hurts so much. The relationship that I had was extremely confusing. We were on and off for about half a year! He was my best friend before we started talking. We ended our relationship on good terms but many times I miss him terribly and become quite depressed. I understand why we had to break up but it hurts to let our memories go.

Practicing Abstinence in College

July 20, 2014
I’m a virgin and want to practice abstinence, but I feel like all couples do in college is have sex. How can I find a guy who will love me for what I believe in?

Friends with Benefits?

November 17, 2017
How do I deal with someone who only wants to be friends with benefits, but I may want more?