I have become pretty good friends with one of my guy friends. Unfortunately, as I got to know him better, I liked him more as more than a friend. I’m too afraid to say anything about it to him because I think it will make things weird and I’m afraid to lose the friendship. It has also been previously awkward between us because we’ve made out and such at parties and I’m just glad that the awkward stage is over. But now I’m not sure what to do if I like him as more than a friend.
It’s very natural to fall for one of your good friends! After all, you saw great qualities in him as a friend and therefore, may feel that these qualities are also what you look for in a partner. Because things were previously awkward between you two, Mama Luv would suggest just being his friend for right now, for the sake of maintaining or building the relationship. Things can be different in years to come, but at this moment, it may be best to develop the friendship. Honey, please don’t forget to be proactive about hanging out with him! Invite him to events or just have lunch because that way, you can show the good qualities in you ;) In the meantime, make sure to keep your chin up, strut with confidence, and shake what your mama gave ya! Mama Luv is here to help.