This girl and I have been hanging out a lot lately and I can tell there are feelings growing between us two. But the problem is… she has a boyfriend. She’s in a long distance relationship. She talks to me about their problems all the time. We haven’t done anything “bad”… no cheating or anything. I really like her, but I also don’t want to get in-between her relationship with her boyfriend. What should I do?!
Mama Luv is proud that you’re aware you shouldn’t cross the line! It is never a good idea to get in-between someone’s relationship. However, if an emotional relationship is developing between you two, that could get complex and still be considered a separate relationship. Mama Luv would suggest being completely open with her. Communicate that you sense an emotional relationship developing and ask if she feels the same. If she does, perhaps you two believe it’s not a great idea to move forward if she is still in a relationship, especially since this would be not nice to her long-distance partner. Don’t forget to keep your chin up, strut with confidence, and shake what your mama gave ya! Mama Luv is here to help.