So I haven’t dated in while and I think I might be interested in this guy I just met in my organization. Problem is I think I’m too scared of something because I feel like I have been rejecting myself. Telling myself if he had found me attractive he would have already approached me. I feel like I’m such a fool because I haven’t really tried talking to him. Maybe I’m being too hard on myself but I would really like to know the guy a bit more where do I start?
Hi there! We all know what it’s like to have a new crush: the butterflies, the doubt, the hypothetical scenarios we imagine, etc. These feelings are totally normal for just about anyone who’s had a crush, but don’t let them stop you from going after him! And don’t worry about him thinking you aren’t attractive just because he hasn’t approached you; for all we know, he does think you’re attractive but he’s just as nervous as you! Since you met him through an organization that you both are in, try approaching him at the next meeting or event that this organization holds. Say hello and introduce yourself, ask about how he got involved with the organization, or invite him to have food/coffee with you after the meeting. However you approach him, believe in yourself and stay positive! Self-confidence and a smile go a long way :)