Heartbroken ex-boyfriend

July 5, 2014

I’ve broken up with my long-term boyfriend recently, but we can’t stop talking since the break up. I made it clear to him that I just wanted a casual/physical relationship (no labels), nothing serious. He was completely fine with it when we agreed. While casually seeing him, I was also fooling around with other guys. When I told him about it, he seemed heartbroken. I don’t want to hurt his feelings but I also understand that we agreed on having just a casual relationship. Any suggestions?


Sweetie,
Having a casual relationship is a personal choice and is completely fine, as long as both parties fully understand the stituation. However, although your ex-boyfriend agreed, it seems that he is uncomfortable with a casual relationship. Was it clear that this would be an open relationship? Perhaps your ex is fine with a physical relationship, so long as you don’t see other people. Make sure to clarify things with him. Honey, be careful - it seems that he may still have strong feelings for you! If so, Mama Luv would suggest avoiding any type of relationship (other than friendship) with him because it will be hard for him to get over you. Don’t forget to keep your chin up, strut with confidence, and shake what your mama gave ya! Mama Luv is here to help.

Love,
Mama Luv